The obvious difference here between Martha and Mary was that Martha was trying really hard to make things good for Jesus and all of her guests, and Mary was simply just stilling there listening to Jesus.
Now in our natural responses to things – I too might be tempted to say that Martha was doing more for Jesus – sacrificing more, even the opportunity to hear from Jesus so that he and is disciples could be comfortable.
Interestingly Jesus tells Martha that the choice that Mary made was the better one.
Does that mean that it is more important for us to always just listen to God and not to do things for him ?
I am not convinced that is really the heart of this passage.
The Difference
There are 3 clues that tell me there was more to the difference between them :
- the passage says that Martha was “distracted”
- Martha choose to complain about Mary to Jesus ( her guest - it is very inhospitable to put your guest in that position)
- Jesus tell us Martha was “Worried and Upset”
It is clear that it was not a simple matter of the acts that were different, there was a heart matter that was putting Mary in a better position than Martha.
How do I apply that ?
The take away for me is this, that while I may have a heart after God, there is a risk that I might get caught up in the way in which I am going about doing it.
The very thing we are working on, and hoping for and praying into, will start to distract us, make us worry, become negative about others – and in all of that, despite that fact that we do all of this so that we can have maturing growing encounters with God – that when we finally do have God in our house talking too us, we miss the boat!
As if somehow the act of ushering in God is more important than him being there !
Take a concrete example here. Worship in church is a way to usher in God and allow people to open their hearts to share with God… but it is not uncommon during the worship for some to complain that the one singer was out of tune, or that the timing was not quite right.. or that they should have sung that other song etc etc etc… and in doing so miss the opportunity to just spend time with God.
Summary
In short, I think it is important that we unclutter our minds when it comes to the presence of God. There is lots we can do hope and prepare for, but once we are there, remember the simple desire you had… to have God meet with you, and enjoy it.